Susan, Thank you! I wrote earlier about my daughters fits and at that time we banned her to her room for a week but we did not eliminate swim practice. All was well for a while but it of course happened again. This time we went “all in” and that ment no swim practice, which ment missing her summer finals meet which she would have won all 4 events. Finally, it made and impact. I’ve reviewed TWBC and 6 keys. She has had one more episode after an especially long and tiring 2 weeks but is now really thriving. I have Johns new book on order and am looking forward to it. Thank you for your advice and support. It really does work. I just had to get over those last few strings to my old ways. ”Do or do not, there is no try” as Yoda says. (My son’s favorite movie) I know there will be challenges ahead, this year I’m homeschooling both of them, 5th and 1st. I may be here a lot.